Showing posts with label Cincinnati. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cincinnati. Show all posts

Friday, March 4, 2011

Farewell Friday Funsies

It all started back in Cincinnati.

The very first Friday Funsie.

As with most things, I get stuck on something and just can't "let it go".

Then I wake up one day and am totally sick of it.

I do this with food too.

Anyway...

I think it's time to bid farewell to the Friday Funsie.

There have been too many weeks of me waiting until Friday night to post something when I really just want to inhale my Hideaway pizza and go into auto-pilot as I catch up on our DVR.

I have never wanted the blog to feel like a "job" -- it's intended to be a way for me to document this phase in our lives and for long-distance family members, friends, blog-stalkers, etc. to get a peak of our every day happenings.

So, to bring it full circle, I give you the last thrilling Friday Funsie...

{Almost} a two year run...
Farewell Friday Funsies!

Friday, September 4, 2009

Friday Funsies

When my mom, Aubrey, and I were making our final GPS guided turns to get to our new home here in Oklahoma, our tired eyes noticed a sign as we entered Edmond (the suburb where we live).

It states:

Welcome to Edmond: A Great Place to Grow

I remember my mom saying, "I know this will be a great place for you all to grow."

Aubrey, however, seems to have taken this slogan literally.

The pictures on the left were taken just before we moved from Cincinnati.
The pictures on the right were taken just last week.

It seems we've gone from playing with stuffed animals to slobbery, wet kisses for babydolls, unintentional falling to "watch me play fall down!", and peach fuzz hair to something similar to Donald Trump's coiffure.





































Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Goodnights with Daddy

Last night was monumental.

It marked Daniel's LAST night of being on-call! This means from here on out, we will have him home EVERY night! This is so HUGE I can't even begin to tell you.

We looked back over his year and realized he worked around eight weeks of 30 hour shifts. That's crazy. Technically, when you think about it, Aubrey and I went almost two months without him around. And what's even crazier is that most residents have it much worse. We're considered the "lucky ones."

We are really lucky now because we're granted more time with the person who brings endless smiles, side-cramping laughs, and overall fun to us girls at home.

Daniel -- we are so completely happy that you'll be coming home every evening. We'll be excitingly anticipating your arrival each afternoon...

Thursday, May 21, 2009

My Mini Melting Pot

So over the past couple of days, all my encounters have been with people from another country. You all know I love accents (#1 on my random list), so I've been in absolute heaven.

Here are a few scoops out of my life's melting pot lately...

::French Connection::

It was a gorgeous day, and Aubrey and I decided to take a stroll around the complex. As we headed out, I noticed a lady putting her son in a stroller as well. We were in front of them, and I kept thinking to myself, "Turn around and introduce yourself!" It was that awkward distance which is too far to just slow down and let them you catch you -- you'd pretty much have to stop and/or turnaround. I hoped they would speed up, but then, before I knew it, they were gone. Dang...must have taken a different street. Well, that's when Aubrey and I began "the hunt." We burned up those sidewalks trying to figure out their route so we could "accidentally" bump right into them.

After about 15 minutes of wishing we had that great BOB jogging stroller, I was profusely sweating. I sadly admitted defeat and just strolled nonchalantly with the babe. As we rounded the corner to head back to our place, we spotted them coming from the Leasing Building. Ah! Caught ya! I introduced myself and she did the same. I have NO idea what she said her name was, but I did catch everything else we talked about after the name exchange.

She's French and her little boy just turned one on Sunday. His name is George Edward {Umm...how cute is that!?}, and he's the most handsome little boy you've ever seen. Quick visual: sandy-blonde hair, drop-dead-gorgeous blue eyes, and a bit of a tanned face. The mom said her husband is from Italy {explains George Edward's sweet tanned face...}, and they're only here for two years for his job. {Amazing how this "hubby's job brought us here for a short time" theme keeps popping up around here...}

Anyway, as we chatted all the way back to our prospective homes {mainly both complaining about the noise, the dirt bike rider, the fireworks, etc.}, Aubrey and George Edward couldn't keep their eyes off one another. We agreed to take the babies to the pool once it gets a little warmer.

Poor Aubrey...I'm not sure she's ready for bikini season.

{What season?!}
::Hopping on the Ukrainian Train::

Our neighbors were extra noisy yesterday, and woke up my precious sleeping baby {I think God's really working me overtime with the whole "love your neighbor" lesson}. Aubrey was so tired, but couldn't get back to sleep {the CONTINUED noise wasn't helping matters} so I thought we'd go for a walk. Aubrey wasn't having it. So, after lugging a 20 lb. baby and pushing the empty stroller all the way back home, I remembered the little cat toys I bought to take to my new "Cat Lady"* friend. I had yet to visit and kept talking myself out of going over there. It's so hard to just knock on someone's door {I thought I could use the cat toys as an ice breaker}. I figured, well, this day can't get much worse...I'll just take Aubrey over there with me. If she gets fussy I'll use that as the reason to head back home. {Please tell me I'm not the only awful parent out there who uses their child as a quick exit strategy!?}

I knocked on the door and was greeted by the Cat Lady's husband. He said, "You must be Ashley! 'Cat Lady' talks about you all the time! She's going to be so glad you're here!" Out came Cat Lady, and the smile on her face made me wonder why I had waited this long to visit. She's truly a lovely person. Aubrey spotted the kitties {and their toys} and completely forgot about being tired. Cat Lady made some tea and brought out some cookies and Ukrainian chocolates. She whisked up Aubrey and said, "You sit, I want you relax...I take baby...you enjoy your tea." Bless that woman!

We sipped on our tea {out of the most gorgeous, vintage Russian tea cups I have ever seen} and just talked. Well, we would say a few sentences and then have to corral Aubrey out of the cat toys/bed/food. Cat Lady spoke Ukrainian and Russian to Aubrey while we were there, and Aubrey just soaked it all in with amazement. She even started jabbering in little words I've never heard her say before. It was so incredibly cute.

*I don't want to put Cat Lady's name on here...it just feels like an invasion of privacy or something. I will say, however, that it's a great Ukrainian name.

::The REAL Super Nanny::

This week, Aubrey and I went to the mall because the girl has literally outgrown everything she owns. I would bet money that her legs grow an inch overnight. Anyway, we were waiting for the elevator to take us to the children's department {I would swear they change the location of this department every time we go. I park on the second floor, Children's is on the first. I park on the first floor the next time, it's on the second. Ah!}, and an older lady came up to wait with us. She said {in the most wonderful British accent}, "Ah, love, must be teething, eh?!" talking to Aubrey as she was gnawing on her toy. I told her I think we've been teething for months and still no tooth to show for it. The lady said, "Well, I've been a nanny for over 60 years, and I'd say she'll get that tooth pretty soon!"

"Wow, 60 years! That's incredible!"

"Yes dear, been with the same family for 3 generations. Now they take care of me!"

I almost cried it was so sweet.

"Now, I'm not like those British super nannies you see on TV, oh no, I don't know where they did their training, but it's all rubbish I tell you. I started out in a maternity hospital when I was 16 years old. I've been around children ever since. I'll be 82 this year."

Thinking to myself, "I need to somehow suck all the knowledge out of this woman's brain," but all I could get out was, "So, what's your best advice when it comes to children?"

"Enjoy them, dear. Just enjoy them."

Priceless advice.
**********

Here's a little preview of what's been going on in our "American" household:

Daddy helping Aubrey try a Baby Puff for the first time.

Aubrey discovered our stairs. Mommy discovered new gray hairs.

Until next time...au revoir, paka, cheerio, and goodbye!

Friday, April 17, 2009

Tomorrowland

I'm telling you what...this little lady teaches me more on a daily basis than any course, study, internship, or job I've ever had in all my 27 years of living.

Every morning Aubrey wakes up with a larger-than-life, contagious smile and crazy, wide eyes that just sing with happiness. Joy literally emanates through her. She savors each individual moment she's awake, and today, I realized I don't.


Take last night for instance… I watched the clock well past midnight because my mind was swimming with paint colors for the house in Oklahoma, which room would be best for Aubrey, how will our furniture be arranged, etc.

It all became clear to me this afternoon -- I am living in Tomorrowland.

You know, the mental place you reside when you’re just coasting through a season of your life? That’s me right now. We’re leaving Cincinnati in two months (more or less). My mind has already checked out.

Back in January I joined an online service for mom’s to connect in their respective area. I was desperate for a friend or any living, breathing creature who had given birth within the last 12 months. I needed another “mommy” friend. I got nothing. You’d think in a city as large as Cincinnati there would have been SOMEONE out there.

Well, I sent a few “Hi, my name is Ashley. I just had a baby in September…” emails but never got a reply from anyone. Then, out-of-the-blue in February, I got a bite. A lady sent me a message that said she had a little girl a few months older than Aubrey and that we should be friends. I was ecstatic, to say the least. So, I wrote the lady back practically within seconds, and I JUST got her response the other day. It had been over 2 months since she emailed me. TWO MONTHS.

I haven’t written her back yet. What’s the point…we’re outta here in June. And where the heck was this back in January when I was reaching out for anyone to befriend?

You know what? No, sorry lady, you missed your chance. We’re moving to Oklahoma where I’ll make TONS of new friends. I’ll find a church that feels like home again. I won’t have to share walls with annoyingly loud neighbors. Now run along, I’m too busy looking up the local YMCA and libraries closest to our future neighborhood in Oklahoma.

Then this afternoon happened.

I realized this new bad attitude was the result of me fully occupying my cozy Tomorrowland.

I have decided, still somewhat reluctantly, that I am going to email her back. Maybe we’ll hit it off and become lifelong friends. Or maybe not. All I know is that God hasn't moved me to Oklahoma yet. That means there's still a reason I'm here.

I have decided to live in the here and now.

And according to Aubrey, it’s the best place to be.

"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus."

--1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Monday, January 12, 2009

Weekend with Grammy & Pop Pop

Daniel was working his hideous 30 hours of on-call this Saturday / Sunday, so my ever obliging parents came to stay with Aubrey and me. I really realize just how much I miss my parents when they pull out of our driveway and make the 4 hour journey back to Owensboro. Daniel has to ask me about 5 minutes afterwards, "Are you okay?" I just get pretty emotional lately when people leave. When family and friends pay a visit, the loneliness gets swallowed up with the joy of spending time together. I get to eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner with someone other than myself along with the daily mail and have some adult conversation. It's so wonderful.

Random sidenote: Does anyone remember that old commercial of the couple who goes to the symphony and the wife says something along the lines of, "I love that iambic pentameter...wamater." and then the voice-over on the commercial says, "Need to get out more?" in reference to the mom being around babies way to much? I feel like that sometimes!

Anyway...my mom asked me this weekend if I felt like I ever had a touch of the baby blues. Hmmm...interesting question. Have I been sad at times after Aubrey's birth? Yes. But I also had moments of sadness before she was born. Completely uprooting from a city you've spent the last 8 years of your life in, leaving a job you enjoyed, friends you love dearly, a church that felt like family...who wouldn't have moments have sadness? But in the dark moments of life, God's light really shines so much brighter.

I have always said, "All you need in this life is God." Well, now I'm able to really test myself on that one and see if I was all talk, or if I truly believe it. I don't have my friends here, I don't have a church I can call family, I don't have a job (in the literal sense), I have a husband who is in his busiest time right now so really, all I have is God (and Aubrey, of course).

It's in the moments when Daniel's at work, Aubrey's napping, the apartment is completely silent, it's cold & rainy (or snowy) outside when I feel the bitter harshness of being alone. Then I feel my heart cry out to God in the most raw sense, and He's there with me. He's always there. And these seven months in Cincinnati have already brought me closer to Him than I could have ever hoped. It's been hard, but God is so faithful. He never sleeps or slumbers. He is always here with me. Rain or shine.

Every morning Aubrey and I sing the song (okay, I sing the song...Aubrey listens and sucks her hand) "This Is the Day that the Lord Has Made" and then again in Spanish (we learned that version at our church in Birmingham and Daniel and I loved it). It has proven to be just what I need each morning to remind me that God made this day, and I will rejoice in it because I get to spend it with Him. (If you got our Christmas card this year, you might have noticed it was the scripture verse we included in the inside greeting.)

So, to answer my mom's question...I don't think I had (or have) the "baby blues," but I have had moments of blue-ness. Some days many shades of it, but I am putting my hope and trust in God and thanking Him for helping me through every day...regardless of the color.

Okay, wow...totally didn't mean to go there in this post! Back to the happiness of this weekend. Here are some pictures of Aubrey enjoying the visit from Grammy & Pop Pop:

Aubrey about to get some giggles out, but doesn't know it yet...



Grammy is getting her warmed up...almost there...



Out comes the best sound:



Morning story time with Grammy & Pop Pop:



Daddy's home from his looooong night on-call: